Below, I'll be answering some of your questions.
If you have a question, there is a note at the end of this post telling you how to send in your questions to me! :)
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I'm shy. And some people are always trying to get me to be more 'sociable'. They're always pestering me to go out to some activity group or something and try to make some friends, but I already have friends! Just not that many. How do I get them off my back? Any suggestions? Should I do what they say to get them off my back even if I don't want to?
There is nothing wrong with being shy. You should do what you feel comfortable doing.
I'm shy too, and people are always saying, "If you want friends you should just go up to people and talk!" But it is not always as easy as that.
People often just want the best for you and probably think a little push will get you out of the "shy-zone"
You should explain to them that you have friends and that you find it hard to join new groups.
You could also try going out to one of these groups and see what it is like.
As I said, I'm a shy person too.
But as I don't often go out to see people I usually jump at any chance I get.
I often sit and listen to people talking but then feel left out a bit.
I think you should do what you feel the most comfortable doing.
People should except who you are, but if you want to become less shy- then you can e-mail and I would be glad to give you some tips...
But God made you special, unique, and different from everyone else... so be the person you feel comfortable being.
Never do anything you don't feel comfortable doing, because you'll never enjoy things as much as you would if you make your own decision.
Hiya,I really like this boy but when I told him he said he didn't like me back, and then he started ignoring me. We never really talked much before, but now it seems he is keeping out my way on purpose. What do I do?
This same thing happened to me, after I told my crush of 3 years that I liked him.
You could try talking to him or talk to a friend or adult you trust.
But I think it would be best to talk to this boy and tell him how you feel.
That is what I did, and now- even though we aren't close- we are more comfortable with each other.
Don't hesitate to ask me any more questions!
I'm a missionary kid and I live in a country where I'm learning the language. I know a lot of words and stuff, but my teacher says I need to practice speaking the language. But I'm too shy to do that! Every time I try, all the knowledge of the language just slips my mind! And I'm always afraid that someone's going to say I sound funny (as some have said before). What do I do?
I am in the same position as you.
I live in a country that is not my own, and I love living here.
People from here always ask why I don't speak the language- even my doctor asked, and I got annoyed at this as her job isn't to pester me about what language I speak or don't speak...
Ok... going off topic....
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Oh yeah... :D
It is a good idea to try and speak the language and that you might find it hard or people will ask why you sound funny and all that.. but you should try give it a go.
You could always talk in your language you are learning to your siblings or friends if they speak it, and try correct each other.
And if people make fun of you, don't let that get you down....
Practice makes perfect! :)
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